Neighbor Etiquette: Sharing Common Areas

A good neighbor is hard to come by. But, by being one yourself, you can increase the odds that your neighbor will be one too. This is particularly true when it comes to sharing common areas in your apartment complex.

Common Areas

Any part of your apartment complex that you share with neighbors is considered to be a common area. While you can do things your own way inside your apartment, certain areas of the building and apartment complex grounds must be shared with your neighbors, so everyone’s rights must be considered.

Hallways

In most buildings, the hallway leading to your apartment is shared with neighbors. When walking through hallways, common courtesy is a must. Keep your voice down and avoid making loud noises.

If your building has a limited number of apartments on each floor, you may be permitted to decorate the hallway that you share with your immediate neighbors. Never place artwork or other decorations in the hallway without asking your neighbors first. What you find appealing may be offensive to your neighbors. Work with your neighbors to decorate the hallway in a manner that is acceptable to all parties.

Patios and Porches

Patios and porches are often shared by two or more apartments. When sharing patios or porches with your next-door neighbor, don’t place items on their half of the shared area. Never use their chairs, table or other items without their permission. By offering them the use of your belongings, you can open a dialog about their feelings regarding your use of their property. Coming to an understanding before using a neighbor’s property can avoid a disagreement down the road.

Include your roommates in any agreements you make regarding sharing common areas. Not only do you and your roommates have to agree on your use of the patio or porch, but you both must comply with any agreement you made with your neighbors. Good communication is the key to coordinating roommate and neighbor use of shared spaces.

When patios are used by the entire apartment community, as when provided for barbecues or parties, follow your apartment’s rules for their use. Signing up to use the patios may be required. Obey restrictions on hours designated for patio use.

Lawns

Some complexes allow you to use the grassy areas around the buildings. There may be restrictions on their use including activities such as sun bathing, parties or sports. Certain areas may be off-limits. Stay away from areas not intended for tenant use, or reserved for other residents.

Do not start a baseball game, or other prohibited recreational activity, in an area surrounded by apartments. The noise you produce may disturb your neighbors. You also risk breaking a window or damaging someone’s property.

General Common Area Etiquette

Remember that you are living with other people. Your activities affect them. Be conscious of noise and the time, in case people are sitting down to dinner or sleeping. Never infringe on space other people expect to use. Cooperate, communicate and be considerate to keep the peace with your neighbors, when sharing common areas.

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Lisa Bernstein: As a long-time apartment dweller and seasoned condominium trustee, I have dealt with numerous landlord-tenant, property management, and day-to-day apartment complex issues. My extensive, direct experience has led to invaluable insights into apartment life from both the tenant and management perspectives.